Love, Adventure, Laughter, Sex, Freedom, or maybe those Once-In-A-Lifetime Moments of Connection…

Why do you want the skill of being able to talk to anyone?

“Join me as I personally guide you down the inevitable path of dusting off your social swagger, so you can move mountains in your life.”

Do you feel powerless watching social opportunities whiz past you every day?

• Do you feel paralyzed by how people might judge you, so you try to keep your mouth shut?
• Do words stumble from your mouth, when the attention is on you?
• Do you ache, when you watch other people easily talk to others?
• Is there a shaking fear inside you every day around people?
• Are you angry at yourself for not being able to smoothly talk to anyone you meet?

Ready to sign up now? Click here to see which package suits you.

Yo Yo Yo, my friend… you are not alone.

50% of people in American report being shy at times and 90% have reported being shy at some point in their life.

But why are you shy?

Well, you can blame your brain for that. It is NOT helping you out.

Did you know that your brain treats social pain the same way as physical pain? (***See citation below)

So when you see that gorgeous girl (you know… the one you can’t stop thinking about) hanging with some other guy… your brain interprets this the same way it would interpret me slugging you in the face (not that I would do that ).

This is why many people struggle with shyness their entire life. 

Most people try to get over their shyness by giving themselves self-pep talks… have you tried this? “I can go talk to Tina, I can go talk to Tina, I can go talk to Tina.” However, at the same time, another unconscious part of your brain is releasing powerful chemicals throughout your body making it almost impossible to move your muscles to make this action happen.

Your muscles are screaming… “NOOOOOOO!!!”

It is sort of like having a football team play against itself… They probably aren’t going to the Super Bowl anytime soon, right?

Have you felt an inner battle raging in your head?

I remember that feeling well.

You see… I used to be painfully shy. High school, college, and even when I started working, I had a really hard time talking to people. I avoided social situations or if I went… I was usually tense, embarrassed, and worried. I knew I had great things to say… but when the attention was on my to say them, I would mangle my sentences sometimes. In my head, I could picture everyone thinking I was a toolbag or something.

I remember longing for the future, when I would be confident, exciting, and interesting. 

I remember even picturing people look at me as an important, special guy.

But now… when I started talking a lot of people’s eyes seemed to glaze over in boredom.

Do you ever feel that way?

Well… you don’t have to live this way.

Picture this…

• When you open your eyes in the morning, you feel like the heroic main character of an exciting novel.
• When you create your work and you know that whatever is in your heart, you can make a reality. 
• When you hang out with people, you know that whoever interests you is just a conversation away.
• When you see someone who is so sexy it hurts, you know you can walk up and say, Hello.

You are confident you can make the social connections you need… for the life you want to life.

You know that whenever that pit of gurgling anxiety comes rushing up again, you have a number of strategies for dealing with it… so you go through your days with your head up, relaxed, and excited.

You will know you can:

• Build a crew of inspirational friends that are connected to you.
• Seek out valuable partners in your work, so you can collaborate and challenge each other to create things that change our world.
• Reminisce about travel memories from once-in-a-lifetime connections that can inspire your grandkids one day.
• Spend time with a stunning woman that looks at you with her wide, loving, and sparkling eyes.
• Let that attract
• Heck… you can even make a complete fool of yourself on the dance floor and you won’t even care.

 What kind of life do you really want?

Working with Benjamin was unlike working with any other coach in my life.

It wasn’t an atmosphere of condescending judgment and advice given to make me better than I am, but it was a friendly conversation with someone who could talk me through any hesitations I was feeling. Benjamin’s laid-back, easy-going style helped me open up and really talk about the issues I had with talking to new people and after every Skype call, I left feeling a bit more inspired to go out and meet people and take control of my life.

-Nahid H.

What will Social Swagger do for you?

Social Swagger fuses the most up-to-date scientific research with my years of personal adventures overcoming shyness and wraps it up with my thousands of hours of helping at-risk teens create positive habits in their life.

Together we will figure out what areas of socializing you want swagger in and then we’ll design a personalized plan to get you there, as I oversee you the entire way.

• Make killer first impressions.
• Talk to gorgeous women that make your tongue go numb.
• Find your people that share your interests and dreams.
• Create your own Posse of inspirational friends.
• Go up to anyone and make a connection that can last.
• Meet awesome locals when you travel.
• Speak up at work to get the money and recognition you deserve.
• Connect over the Internet with other rockstars.

I could go on… but the question is, “What do you really want in your life?”

I really enjoyed the sessions, they opened my eyes to issues I needed to address and ideas I never really thought about. Since then I have been creating a lot more and involving more people in my life.

I mean I am still working hard at it, but your coaching has made a world of difference.

 

Thank You.

-Whitney W.

 

Sure… you could go on this adventure alone.

I’m a DIY-kind of guy at times. I’m reluctant to spend my money, if I can find something free online or just try and do it myself.

Sometimes this has worked for me… and other times I’ve spent years poking around in the dark in frustration, loneliness, and confusion.

However, when I have invested my money to work with people, who have done what I want to do… I have made rapid progress. Not only am I more committed when I invest my hard-earned dollars, but it is so helpful to have someone experienced with me on my journey. They can guide me through the stumbling blocks with ease.

You are actually reading this, because I’ve sought out some of the best bloggers online and invested my money to work with them. I’m not a natural technology guy… a few years ago, I was living in the pine forests of Virginia.

Heck… it took me years to improve my social skills enough to feel confident. I was screwing up dates, feeling lonely, feeling crazy, and feeling regretful as opportunities pasted me by for so long, that it almost seemed like I would never change.

Maybe it is time for you to take all that pressure off of your shoulders and invest in the life you want to live.

Before talking with Benjamin, I was always worried about walking into a new place and not being able to talk to anyone on my own.

I love to travel & he helped me to see that everyone shares the same experiences & we’re really all just looking to connect. Video-chatting with Benjamin was a lot of fun & I felt like he understood my goals and started me on the path to being the outgoing goof I am now!

{For real – in Idaho a girl said my “outgoing personality made people feel at ease.”}

He challenged me to one-up myself every week & come out of my shell. 

If you’re shy & tired of being a wall-flower, I recommend getting in touch with Benjamin!

 -Kirsta R.

 

Who is right for the Swagger Programs?

 

This program isn’t for everyone.

I’ve designed this program for men and women, who get nervous talking to people.This program works best for people, who do NOT have full-blown social phobia. If you haven’t left your room for months or years at a time, then I’d suggest you seek the help of a mental health professional.

***I’m NOT a doctor, psychologist, psychiatrist, or counselor. If you would prefer to work with a more conventional therapist, then I completely encourage you to do so.

I’m a Social Confidence Coach and I’m going to be guide YOU to take action. If you are looking for someone to fix your life or prescribe some medication to make this problem just go away… then we probably aren’t a good match.
You also have to be willing to:

• Be honest with yourself.
• Face your fears.
• Work hard.
• Invest in the life you want.

This program isn’t right for you, if you:

• Want me to give you all the answers.
• Want me to do all the work.
• Won’t invest in yourself.
• Only trust people with Ph.Ds or other letters behind their name.

My style is less doctor-like and more like “talking to a good friend”… I listen, we’ll have some laughs, but I’ll also push you to make as much progress as we possibly can.

 

***Plus, I’ll be there for you on a more personal level than a doctor could be.

 

Do You Want Pizza or Social Swagger?

Seriously, for the same price as your monthly junk food or video game habit… you could have the confidence to talk to anyone you want. Sure… this isn’t some crazy cure, you will have to overcome the challenge of changing how you think and act. This is tough stuff… and why so many people can’t seem to change their life.

But that’s why I want to help. If you want to have the year of your life, then sign up now.

Important: I only open these sessions up, when I have free slots available, so if this thang is open… jump on it!

When you click Sign Up, you’ll be in and I’ll be sending you your Welcome Backpack very soon. Plus, all our work together carries the Benjamin Guarantee.

 

If you decide to sign up… I look forward to meeting you soon!

Your friend,

-Benjamin

 

Swagger Supernova

Need a 30-day crash mentorship to start on your journey to Swagger? This is the 30-day mentorship, where we will dust off your swagger and set you out on your adventures. We’ll create your personalized Swagger Map in your 60-minute Swagger Session. You’ll also receive the Welcome Backpack and get a 45-minute Follow-Up session.

Plus, more…

The Welcome Backpack is full of worksheets to get you started and will be sent once you have enrolled.

Here is the badass goods you will receive:

• 60-minute Skype Swagger Session
• Personalized Swagger Map that we will create based on your own needs, fears, and dreams.
• Welcome Backpack full of worksheets to help you dig deep to clarify why you are challenges, your dreams, and start showing you how your own personal shyness works.
• Easy, sexy online forms to track your progress.
• Video recording of our sessions, so you can review them at your leisure.
• Weekly email accountability and support to help you through common stumbling blocks.
• 45-minute follow-up Skype session to make sure you are on track towards your Swagger (to be used within 1 month.)

The Swagger Supernova Package is just 197$. Click the button below to sign up now.

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Swagger Mentorship

Want to make a serious dent in your shyness over the next 3 months? This 3-month mentorship is designed to quickly guide you to your own Swagger. We’ll have 3 60-minute Swagger Sessions and I’ll guide you as you create your Personalized Swagger Maps. You’ll receive the Welcome Backpack and

The Swagger Sessions are where we will make TONS of progress.

2 45-minute follow-up sessions. Plus, much more to help you through the common stumbling blocks, and inject inspiration the entire 3 months.

***Plus, you get one free emergency phone call!

The badass goods you receive:

• 3 60-minute Skype Swagger Sessions
• We will create your Personalized Swagger Maps.
• Welcome Backpack full of worksheets to help you dig deep to clarify why you are challenges, your dreams, and start showing you how your own personal shyness works.
• Easy, sexy online forms to track your progress.
• Video recording of our sessions, so you can review it at your leisure.
• Weekly email accountability and support to help you through common stumbling blocks.
• 2 45-minute tune-up Skype sessions to make sure you are on track towards your Swagger (to be used within 3 months).

***Plus, one emergency phone call on my personal number

The Swagger Mentorship is just 497$… or you can sign up for 3 monthly installment plans of 189$. Click button to start now.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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The Swagger Extraordinaire

Want a long-term mentorship? Here is 6 months of guided mentorship to get your full Swagger going. We’ll have 6 60-minute Swagger Sessions, where we’ll create your Swagger Maps. You’ll receive the Welcome Backpack and 4 45-minute follow-up sessions. Plus, much more…

You’ll learn how to create a Swagger Map every week with adventures to overcome shyness.

***Plus, for a limited time you’ll receive 3 emergency sessions on my personal number!

The badass goods you receive:

• 6 60-minute Skype Swagger Sessions
• Personalized Swagger Map
• A Welcome Backpack full of worksheets to help you dig deep to clarify your challenges, your dreams, and start showing you how your own personal shyness works.
• Easy, sexy online forms to track your progress.
• A video recording of our session, so you can review it at your leisure.
• Weekly email accountability and support to help you through common stumbling blocks.
• 4 45-minute tune-up Skype sessions to make sure you are on track towards your Swagger (to be used within 6 months).

***Plus, 3 emergency sessions on my personal phone, when you have that huge important date/event/party that you need some coaching on.

The Swagger Extraordinaire package is 897$ today… or you could sign up for 6 monthly installment plans of 169$ per month.

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Do you have any questions? You can email me by clicking this link.

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Want to see an actual Swagger Session in action?

Here is an 5-minute excerpt from a breakthrough session with Whitney.

Backstory: She hadn’t accomplished her goals that week, so we dig down to the root of the issue AND she has an epiphany.

 

Who is Benjamin and How Can He Help You?

He’s 31, psych degree, ran a school for troubled youth, hitchhiked over 22,000 miles, loves online video, loves helping shy people harness their true power, and is part of a Posse 1,476 strong.

 

If it’s not your thing… I completely understand.

But if being social is something you have been wanting to work on for awhile now… then why wait any longer?

Is it time to shine?

Sign up now

Your bud,

- Benjamin

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